sometimes legal matters are par for the course as a business owner. my ex had quite a few cases related to his business as well. most all were sided in his favor but had he not made me aware of them and i'd gone snooping, what is fairly normal for his industry could've been misconstrued by me to be red flags. people who don't understand the nature of being a business owner don't understand how easily it is to get fuq'd over and accused of wrong doing where there is none.

i guess i'm a lil unclear as to what's happening with her hair.  your daughter's hair can't be dreadlocking over night...as that would be impossible.  if you're doing her hair in the morning by combing/finger-combing it, that would ultimately deter dreads.  the formation of dreads requires tangling and matting.  her hair can't matte if you're combing/styling it regularly.