Man with Legal Drama

sometimes legal matters are par for the course as a business owner. my ex had quite a few cases related to his business as well. most all were sided in his favor but had he not made me aware of them and i'd gone snooping, what is fairly normal for his industry could've been misconstrued by me to be red flags. people who don't understand the nature of being a business owner don't understand how easily it is to get fuq'd over and accused of wrong doing where there is none.

barring knowing the exact details of the court issues, i wouldn't concern myself with it unless there was something blaring. frankly, you haven't known dude long enough to be in his private, personal and business matters. i'd be insulted to know that someone was rooting around in my butter. in fact, just the notion of the violation is setting me a bit off.

bulls are generally open books but we only let you read chapters when we're ready for you to read them. so what may appear to be hiding, might be a timing thing. if i'm not ready to share something with you, that doesn't make it sinister. maybe i have decided you're worth divulging personal details to yet OR maybe you haven't asked the question. i don't know about the other bulls here but if you ask me a direct question, you're bound to get a direct answer. one could regard that as lying by omission or one could see that as, hey, we're supposed to be getting to know each other and i didn't know that i need to provide a dossier at hello.

as far as him pulling away, i sometimes need breathing room. you don't possess him so you have to be able to distinguish between a bull with a lot on his plate and a jackass. a bull with a full plate won't leave the table until it's all's clean. we want you to be where want you to be at any given time but don't try and fence me. the reality is, we're pretty predictable and if you come to know us, you'll be able to figure out the boundaries of the pasture. in other words, we don't need your damn fences...we have our own.

overall, proceed with caution. either its inconsequential and none of your damn business OR it's huge deal, you're excusing it, you're not listening to your gut as tiki suggested. so which are you? are you a nosy bitch who needs to learn boundaries or a smart chick who's looking out for #1?